The essence of the Mpemba effect is that nonequilibrium systems may relax faster the further they are from their equilibrium configuration. In the quantum realm, this phenomenon arises in closed systems dynamics and is witnessed by features of symmetry and entanglement. Here, we study the quantum Mpemba effect in charge-preserving random circuits, combining extensive numerical simulations and analytical arguments. We show that the more asymmetric certain classes of initial states (tilted ferromagnets) are, the faster they restore symmetry and reach the grand-canonical ensemble. Conversely, other classes of states (tilted antiferromagnets) do not show the Mpemba effect. We provide a simple and general mechanism underlying the effect, based on the spreading of nonconserved operators in terms of conserved densities. Grounded only in locality, unitarity, and symmetry, our analysis clarifies the emergence of Mpemba physics in chaotic quantum systems.